Monday, December 24, 2018

Roman Holiday - Day 1.5


Landed in Rome this morning - Dec 24th, around 9:30 am local time. Kids of course are insisting to live in Detroit time. By the time we navigated the Taxi cab jungle and checked into our hotel it was 11:30am. Everyone was exhausted. The plan was to take quick shower and go grab some food and then rest and go out in the evenjng. While some showered, the others napped. The showers shortened and the naps became longer and pretty soon it was 2pm ... so we woke up sleepy kids and found ourselves on streets of Rome, looking for grub, with Help from our friend Yelp. We reached the first pick and found it was closed for holidays, the second promised 'No Stop' service from 11am to 11pm and the proprietor stood on the street explaining the menu- perfect! We had a very nice lunch there - we ended up ordering twice as much food as we needed and Aadi fell asleep after first course. Anyway, we enjoyed the food - and after a hunt for an ATM to draw cash, as no credit card was accepted, we paid and made our way back to the hotel, half asleep. 

4 hours later, it was though but necessary to wake up the kids so can start our transition into Rome time zone. After much whining and bickering we walked to the Colloseum- it was an amazing experience to see it at night. The streets were all empty (eerily so) given this was Christmas Eve and so was the Colloseum. 

We wandered through the streets for another hour or so, stopped at a mini market to pick up some snacks and wine, got some food at a fast food place and finally finished the days eating at the rooftop patio of our hotel - counting down seconds to Christmas! 

A Christmas Eve to remember for a long time. 

Saturday, December 22, 2018

All is fair .... if it’s for a good cause!


17 inches off! Donated to 'Children With Hair Loss'. That is the only thought that is keeping Aadi from disowning his short haired Mamma. ,

Now I need to come up with a plan to somehow turn - getting a tattoo - into a good cause effort. Then maybe he will relent and let me do it. Hmmm ... or maybe not ...

The idea of getting a tattoo entered my head while we lived in Texas. EVERYONE had one !!!!!
I want one so bad ... a teeny tiny one, in a hidden spot will be okay too. Everyone in the family agreed - in fact Suvo wants me to get a big one - and why not THE Dragon tatto! Diya wants to design one for me - combining Suvo's suggestion of a Dragon to my desire for a small one ... she has an idea for a Dragonfly!!! 

But Aadi flatly refused and has not budged from his positon despite many many arguments and discussions in the last 2 yrs. He first took the tact of - "you are beautiful as you are, you don't need a tattoo" Awww... but I WANT a tattoo. When I kept pushing he finally told me "if I let you get a tattoo, then you would want a leather jacket and then a motorcycle and then you drive away ...." WHAT ??!!! (Maybe I read him one too many books about 'if you give a mouse a cookie ...'). And there is NOTHING I can say or do to convince him otherwise. 

And then came the resistance to letting me cut my hair short ... which he finally gave in to when I suggested the donation. But he has been struggling with it ... he has reminded himself several times since yesterday that this is for a good cause ... or as he calls it 'common good' ... 

I have realized that he basically does not want me to change in any way. We have had so many big changes in our life recently that he wants some things to be 'Constants' that he can count on. The way l look and act being one. It warms my heart, but also worries me ... I AM going to get old (some day in the far far far future) !!!!

And here is the secret- I don't want the kids to change either .... and they are growing up TOO fast. Somebody stop the clock ... and let me take this moment in and preserve it for eternity.