Thursday, December 30, 2021

New York State of Mind

Heading home after a week long trip to NYC. What an experience. Everyday was packed with planned and impromptu activities. Each one of these was an assault to our senses and overwhelmed our system in good and bad ways. We decided to rate each experience on a 1-5 star rating scale (adopting from John Green essays we have been reading lately). 

Our hotel was right at Times Square so we were in the thick of it all. Food was our main focus for this trip and there were so many awesome restaurants just within minutes of walking. We made it a sport of finding the highest rated ones and getting just in time reservations in these. We even got Door Dash deliveries when the lines were too long. (Doordashians! :)). 

Other favorites were visiting Liberty Island 🗽, watching Wicked at Broadway, Chinatown and we even squeezed in Ice Skating at Bryant Park. The kids adapted surprisingly well to change or pace and loved every bit of it. 

The most mind bending part of the trip was passing through Times Square multiple times a day to get to and from our hotel. Including driving there to drop off the luggage and then checking out and loading up on the last day. And giving away our car and car keys to a random person, in exchange for a small slip of paper. This was online parking. My heart just stopped at the prospect of losing or damaging the car. But our nerves were too frazzled to do much about it. When in New York …. Or rather Times Square … just go with it. 

The place has a totally different character at different times of the day. Evenings are madness. It's not just the throngs of people, the food trucks, the smell, the sounds of police sirens non-stop piercing the otherwise loud cacophony, the ADD inducing billboards all vying for our attention, the jay-walking thru signals, everyone pushing and shoving and stepping on others feet, the cops literally battling the traffic to keep it moving. There were random things like Elmo helping Spider-Man adjust his outfit in a side alley, Bumblebee, Kong-Kong, Mario, Minnie Mouse and yes Grinch wandering around offering to take pictures. One store boasted hand-prints from Jackie Chan and Harrison Ford on its wall! And then there was a COVID-19 testing station right in the middle of the road with a huge waiting line. On top of all this, they started putting together the stage and other preparations for New Years Eve Ball Drop. We learned a gross little tid-bit that people line up the night before to get there spots and wear diapers so they don't have to leave their spot for the next 24 hours. Glad we are not part of this particular ordeal. 

However, the highlight of the trip was eating at Momofuku Noodle Bar. Earlier this year Diya had bought me David Chang's book 'Eat a Peach' and we have all read all or parts of it. We are totally fans - so this was a much anticipated event. 

The Noodle Bar was at Lincoln Center Mall in Uptown. We were rushing to find the place before we lost our reservation. We were exhausted from the day spent on Liberty Island, distraught that this was our last day in NYC and mind was so bombarded by the last week that we did it not even notice two huge naked statues at the mall entrance. This would have totally grabbed our attention and would have been a topic of much discussion at a different time and place but we just walked passed these without another glance or comment.

Finally we did reach Momofuku and it exceeded our expectations in so many ways. Complete unpretentious goodness. The food, the service, the whole experience was welcoming and made us feel comfortable in our skin and created a memory that we will cherish. Diya is totally inspired to pursue her Chef dreams and live in New York someday. And we are committed to coming back again. We already have started a list for what to do next time. 

We are in New York State Of Mind!!

Tuesday, December 28, 2021

NYC Trip (2021) Rating

Ratings - Diya, Ankur, Suvo, Aadi

Places 
- Times Square - 3, 3, 4, 3, 
- Hyatt - 5, 4, 4, 4.5
- WTC Observatory - 3.5, 2, 3, 4
- WTC Basement - 1, 3, 4, 4
- Chinatown - 6, 5, 5, 5
- Statue of Liberty - 4, 3, 4, 4.5
- Ellis Island - 3, 3.5, 4, 4.5
- Wicked - 5, 5, 6, 5
- Rockefeller Center Xmas Deco - 3, 2, 2, 3
- Walking around - 3, 3, 5, 4.5
- Subway - 2, 4, 5, 4

Food
- Saar - 4, 3.5, 4.5, 4.5
- Joe's Pizza - 3.5, 4, 3, 3
- Havana Central - 4, 4, 4.5, 4.5
- Junior's - 2, 3.5, 3, 4
- Momofuku - 7, 5, 5, 6

Favorite
- Wicked
- Momofuku
- CT
- Walking around and experience new things! (Aadi)

Saturday, December 25, 2021

NYC Day 2 - Aadi’s Special Outfit

Day 2 in NYC - we are exhausted after walking around Times Square, Rockefeller Center and generally around the area. Overwhelmed with the crowds and the noise and the general chaos. We did accomplish finding the subway station we need to go to for excursions tomorrow. But gave up on standing in a long line for the famous Joe's Pizza. Instead we are back in our hotel - Hyatt Centric right at Times Square - and decided to get the pizza delivered through Door Dash. Aadi volunteered to go to the front desk when the food arrives and debated whether he should change out of his nicely put together outfit he had on for the evening or not. Shortly after that he forgot all about it and went to take a loooooong shower. He came out wearing his favorite pajamas - a skeleton shirt (3 sizes bigger) and Nighmare Before Christmas bottoms (many sizes bigger too). The whole ensemble is hilarious and totally Aadi and we reminded him that he has to pick up the food shortly and we dared him to go to the hotel front desk wearing his signature outfit that he has on. Not only he refused to do so, he did not want us to take pictures of him in it and tried hiding under the blankets!!! But did not change out of it. And why should he, he totally loves this outfit and we love seeing him in it. 

Wednesday, December 22, 2021

Saving the best for last!

This year has been a long and hard test of endurance. It seems everything that could go wrong did. Ongoing battle with pandemic, flooded house, school struggles, health challenges, ridiculous workload, canceled trips and even stuff as horrifying as shooting at a local high school. 

There were times that threatened to unravel us and phases that seemed interminable. There were spots of sunshine too - we managed to meet a lot friends and family after a long time. And somehow we made it through. The kids have shown amazing resilience in the wake of all this. And that is our only hope. This too shall pass and we will recover. 

Holiday plans for trip to Austria fell apart and the year end frenzy pushed me into another bout of migraine. But the kids really put life back into what would have been a depressing end to a challenging year. So many holiday concerts!!! What a surprising treat to see them perform- despite never having met the whole band class together!! The music warmed our hearts and more than made up for missing Vienna Opera House - no one there was performing just for us :). Also Suvo whipped up last minute plan to go to NYC - did not know he had travel agent skills. 

The kids put up the tree and somehow presents presented themselves and gifts got gifted and unwrapped today - 2 days before Christmas. Why now … Just because! I love this type of logic that kids produce. Have to learn to live by it more and more!!!

Aadi had managed to open all his presents before today -he is making a computer so all the parts arrived and he opened and started assembling already. The motherboard broke already and got shipped back for repairs. All before even the early Christmas we initiated. So he was somewhat crestfallen at gift opening- not expecting any more for himself since he already opened them all (as far as he knew).

But there were many little surprises and he was delighted. Diya too was happy to find a neat pile with her name on it. She had set up a gift registry or sorts with a live google doc and it seems Santa has internet access now! Everyone had one big surprise box, even Aadi, and he insisted we save these for last and open them together.

Diya got a Victrola - something she had been pinning for 4 years now (and a Norah Jones Holiday Collection vinyl for me! ) we are both such romantics. Suvo got boxes of premium tea - who doesn’t need more tea? And I got an air-fryer - clearly we need more kitchen appliances that we don’t have space for! We really need to stop being pragmatic and do things … just because 😋

But it was Aadi's reaction at his mystery big box that was priceless - a VR headset! He could not believe he got that!!! I wish I could have captured that moment on camera … but then I am glad I caught it live vs fiddling with a device at that time. Something’s can’t be digitized. For others there is a VR headset LOL. 

We are now looking forward to heading out for NYC tomorrow (hoping my migraine will co-operate just enough so I can bundle up in the backseat with an eye mask, ear plugs … and maybe a puke bucket 😬). I will pack extra meds, little bit of hope and borrow a smidgen (this required Alexa's help to spell) of resilience from the kids and we should be all set. 

I will try to leave behind fear (despite Omicron rampant) and ditch paranoia that something else will go wrong (despite the track record so far this year). I will hope and pray that this last week will be the best this year. 

P.S. My head wants to explode. I need to go crawl under the blankets again and sing my migraine song - 

(Mig)rain(e) (Mig)rain(e) go away
Don’t come back another day
Little Mommy wants to stay
Pain free just one more day. 

I love nursery rhymes… they come in so handy to solve life’s big problems. 

P.P.S. Clearly not thinking straight. Interminable excruciating headache will do that to you. Must stop blogging under these conditions. 

P.P.P.S. Happy Holidays! (Let’s make them so …)

Saturday, November 13, 2021

Christmas Don’t Be Late




We can hardly wait for Christmas this year. It's not even Thanksgiving and we are preparing for Christmas. The tree is out, ginger bread man is gracing our dish drying mats and holly patterned kitchen towels are hanging right next to the pumpkin patch ones. 

Diya has been up since 5am making presents wish-list and spent the whole day cooking and shopping. Dinner includes mussels cooked in mushroom broth, pasta and Alfredo sauce, roasted peppers soup with artisan bread served with Norah Jones's new holiday album setting the mood in the background. 

Aadi - the one who does not eat fish - demanded and ate all of his squid ink fettuccine to the point of licking his bowl. The mussels were discarded … well because, don't we know, he does not eat fish!

I enjoyed a chilled glass of my favorite Chardonnay and played Ludo with Aadi while Diya and Suvo bustled about in the kitchen. 

And just like that, we are ready for the holidays. 

(Diya is passed out with exhaustion at the end of the day. She has totally earned a hand massage today - another favorite bedtime routine.)

What a delicious evening!



Monday, November 1, 2021

Panic email from Aadi when school bus was canceled



---------- Forwarded message ---------
From: Ganguli, Aditya <ganguliad@northvilleschools.net>
Date: Mon, Nov 1, 2021 at 9:54 AM
Subject: hi
To: <ankurganguli2006@gmail.com>, Suvo Ganguli <subhabrata.ganguli@gmail.com>


guys you gotta pick me up after school
they cancelled busses for the week, so you gotta pick me up
to make it even simpler
NO BUS.
PICK ME UP AT 3:03

Sunday, October 10, 2021

Home Coming 2021 (finally w/ pics!)



Yesterday was a perfect "home coming" after months of struggle. This year was tough with the impacts of pandemic wearing us out to the bones. That was compounded by the debacle of (yet another) flooded bathroom and garage, cars colliding into each other, kids losing traction in school and general disarray at home. And did I mention the missing passports! 

Last few days a lot of stuff came around and came together- house is fixed, new passports arrived, kids are enjoying in-person school, grades are skyrocketing up, we had a marathon celebration for Diya's 16th Birthday- and, finally finally finally, smiles are back on the faces!! 

Aadi's donation of his mane was almost ceremonial and very symbolic, shedding his coat of last season. And so was Diya going to the school dance with her friends - ditching her worn out sweatpants and converses for a fitting dress, bold makeup and yes, those Doc Martens!

Suvo cooked a ton of food and invited couple of friends from work for a reunion- who interestingly enough interacted with us and with Aadi with same ease - discussions mostly centered around emerging technologies, of which Aadi seemed to have acquired a surprising depth and breadth. (It seems he has been reading the IEEE Spectrum and Wired magazines we get, as much as we do!). There is something to be said about Geek-dom crossing generational boundaries. It was a new and refreshing experience and one to look forward to in years to come - continuing to share and build common interests- from Disney Pixar & Marvel to food & travel to music and now technology!

Feels like we are well on our way to coming back home after a long painful detour of the pandemic trail. I can smell the cinnamon pine cones, taste the pumpkin spice muffins and feel the warmth of elaichi-chai!


(Had to submit multiple times before getting it correctly posted with pics! Maybe the ordeal is not over yet :/)

Saturday, September 11, 2021

Chicken Fajita

Home made chicken fajita while Mamma is backpacking in the Smokies!